I'm not a fan of Hungarian notation, but C++ kind of needs it with its
implicit `this`. And of all the common options for this, I find
suffixing members with an underscore the least offensive one.
This does what we did for a few functions in the last few commits for
every function. We now use either the `std::invocable` concept or our
own `invocable_returning` concept wherever possible to make sure we pass
function types to these template functions, since constraint errors are
a lot more readable than template deduction errors. And instead of
having to specify the return type as a template argument, we now just
use `std::invoke_result_t<F>` instead. The VST3 message handling
functions are still using the good old `typename F` since those are
overloaded polymorphic functions. This was also a good moment to modify
`AdHocSocketHandler::send()` to allow functions returning void (this got
rid of an old fixme where we had to return some dummy value from a
function instead of just not returning anything).
As it turns out, we'll sadly also need this for VST2 plugins on the Wine
side, so we should probably finally encapsulate this instead of
duplicating it a third time.