Preallocate small vectors for VST3 queues

Events, parameter changes, and the individual queues contained within
the parameter changes all use dynamic memory allocation. Preallocating
some memory for those things inside of the objects may prevent latency
spikes when they those objects are first filled. This is especially
useful for the parameter changes since there's no way to reserve memory
in a vector of vectors.

CHANGELOG.md

@@ -36,6 +36,8 @@ Versioning](https://semver.org/spec/v2.0.0.html).
   unions yabridge uses to differentiate between single and double precision
   floating point audio buffers, undoing all of our efforts at reusing objects
   and preventing memory allocations in the process.
+- Further optimized VST3 audio processing by preallocating small vectors for
+  event and parameter change queues.
 - Changed the way mutual recursion in VST3 plugins on the plugin side works to
   counter any potential GUI related timing issues with VST3 plugins.
 - The deserialization part of yabridge's communication is now slightly faster by