feat(vpn): path MTU discovery to find the best MTU (#2586)

internal/pmtud/df_windows.go

@@ -0,0 +1,13 @@
+//go:build windows
+
+package pmtud
+
+import (
+	"syscall"
+)
+
+func setDontFragment(fd uintptr) (err error) {
+	// https://docs.microsoft.com/en-us/troubleshoot/windows/win32/header-library-requirement-socket-ipproto-ip
+	// #define IP_DONTFRAGMENT        14     /* don't fragment IP datagrams */
+	return syscall.SetsockoptInt(syscall.Handle(fd), syscall.IPPROTO_IP, 14, 1)
+}